So your boss called you suddenly and says your service is no longer needed at your workplace. Phew! your dude says he’s sick with the lovey-dovey thing and wants out.
ouch! it hurts badly.
There’s nothing to fear about rejection. It’s God’s protection and a nudge in a better direction.
Really,your response to the situation will determine what’s to happen next in your life. Most often times,when we are being turned down by the people we trust and rely upon, our first response is to feel we have been used all along and the next is to think they never liked us anyway. But sincerely, these people never meant any harm. if you are someone like me, my response will be It’s time to move on…
You cannot expect a change when you have not made the effort to step out of your comfort zone. Believe me, God will do anything just to make sure He moves you out of any system you may find yourself when the time is right.
Life is full of rejection. The key to success is using each ‘no’ as a fuel to keep you going ahead – Omobola Stephen
Have you ever stop to ask why that person who meant so much to you suddenly show you the door? Did you take time to decipher why it has to come at such a time in your life? It is when a man comes to the end of himself that he sees the beginning of God.
When the rejection start popping from every angle, know its a sign that you are about to enter a new phase of your life and you must do everything possible to welcome this phase and cease every moment there is.
The biggest hurdle is rejection. Be ready for it. The difference between succesful people and unsuccessful people is that succesful people do all the things unsuccessful people don’t want to do.
When 10 doors are slammed in your face, go to door number 11 enthusiastically with a smile on your face- John Paul De joria
For me, I have had a couple of No moments in my life right from when the year began.As a human, i felt low and hopeless. I could barely find any navigation and i began to feel depressed and vindictive. “Maybe i wasnt doing the right thing,why the sudden hatred from the people i believed in? I questioned one beautiful morning while in the shower.
But today, the reality is playing out by the day,everything is getting clearer to me. I no longer have to dislike any one of them for messing with my emotions. I have come to understand that I needed their disapproval for my next level in life.
Their disapproval made me realise my innate prowess which had been lurking within for years;it helped shaped my perception about people(actually a positive one). Better still, I am becoming more like what destiny purposed for me and not the other way round.
Closed doors ,rejection. They do not decide your fate. They simply redirect your course. You must keep moving because life detours can also be meaningful.- Dodinsky
Now when you get a ‘No’ from anyone, don’t you go critical,judgemental, or vindictive. see it as a redirection and not the end of the world.
A No is a redirection. Period!!!