Let Go Of The Past
The Past will always be the past and there is absolutely anything you and I can do about it except to accept the reality and move on.
Besides,if there wasn’t any past,we would not be talking about the future,or better still,the present will not make sense in any way.
Now that you are no longer living in the past,why then,do you still prefer to hang around all that represent your past? Or perhaps keep on ruminating about what could have been or what should have happened. You are not in control of the events that played out in your life and if you truly are,you would have stopped some events from playing out but since you couldn’t,wouldn’t it be wise if you decide to accept all that happened as important part of the journey to your destiny fulfilment? Besides each bitter pills you swallowed not only made you stronger but it also made you wiser.
And if the battles you faced knocked you down,thank Heavens it didn’t knock you out. Now,that’s very important truth you must hold on to.
In reality,your present moment is all you have got right now,so go ahead and maximize every opportunities that presents itself and worry less about the future. The future is not tomorrow but it’s happening now.
I grew up under a dysfunctional family setting and the drama that took place all through my growing up years actually invaded my psychological,mental,and emotional space for a long while. It was a battle I fought hard to conquer and it went on till I decided it was time to stop the whole mess and take on life with all the boldness I had in me. So I opted forgiveness of my past and all its misgivings once and for all. These included all the actors that took center stage in the drama of my life which included my parents, uncles, aunts,extended families,and friends.
Besides,they had moved on and some had even passed away,so why should I continue to hold them to ransome for the way my life turned out?
If you share the same experience as I did,don’t be forlornly. Forgiveness is all you need to be whole. You cannot continue to be vindictive all the days of your life. Realise that,if these people weren’t in the drama,other people would have.The fact that they were the ones destiny brought your way should make you understand that you have no control over some certain events of your life especially when it comes to choosing your life path.
Inorderwords,all I am trying to communicate to you is that it is time for you to quit the hate syndrome and appreciate each one for the role they played. Forgive them and forgive yourself also. This is the only way you can evolve and attract every good thing the universe brings your pathway.
Consider the words of Shannon L. Alder, “Forget what hurts you in the past but never forget what it taught you. However,if it taught you to hold on to grudges,seek revenge,to be unforgiven,or to less compassionate,to categorize people as bad,to distrust and be guarded with your feelings,then you didn’t learn a thing. God does not bring you lessons to close your heart,He brings you lessons to open it. By developing compassion,learning to listen,seeking to understand rather than speculate, practicing empathy and developing conflict resolution through communication. If he brought you perfect people,how would you ever learn to spiritually evolve.”
Work On Your Belief System
Your belief system is very crucial to your overall wellbeing. If you are in the right relationship or the right environment,but your believe system is faulty,then,you would remain frustrated and miserable.Sometimes,you may find yourself in uncontrollable situations that forces you to alter your belief system inorder for your survival. This oftentimes set the stage for disappointment and resentment. If you found out that your present environment is beginning to affect your positive belief system by the energy it is giving,if you can’t seem to have control over it,you can possibly reset your mindset and find something interesting to read or watch inorder for the negative energy to pass away. You must continually work on your belief system and ensure it stays positive no matter where you find yourself.
Seize The Moment
In life,each one of us is always looking for a moment that will transform our lives. The words like,”I’m waiting for that moment when I would be called up for my Visa approval. That would be the happiest day of my life.” rings a bell. This is because,the moment is what will make all the difference you have been waiting for. It is therefore,absolutely essential for you to recognize a moment in each opportunity that life presents to you and when you have found it,go ahead and maximize it.
A moment in the lifetime of an opportunity can be when you earned your driver’s license or the moment you realise that you passed your industrial chemistry class.
So,if you have been looking forward to driving around the city with your driver’s license in your pocket,it would be natural for you to look for a moment that would trigger the reality of your dream. This can be by ensuring you are punctual at the class organized for all new car drivers in the city. And the moment is when you are called up to pick up your driver’s license. That could be an unforgettable experience of a lifetime. This is why you need to be sensitive to opportunities and also be ready to take on moments when they show up.
If you have ever set goals for yourself and hope to achieve them,waiting for the right time or the right person will keep you stuck. There is no better time to do anything than the one you are using at the moment which is now.
Dreams can only become reality if you take action. If you chose to sit down and watch events play out themselves,life will pass you by leaving you bitter and judgemental. The last thing you will ever think of is to believe things will surely work out no matter what. If you do not take steps to activate your dream or goals,they will remain there for as long as they can.
Fo instance,if you are planning to have a wedding in the next five months,I believe taking action for the fulfilment of the dream should begin Immediately considering all important factors like the wedding location,interior decorators,catering services and so forth. Likewise,any other important goals which you have.