If you really want to change your life,you have to change your life. What this means is that if you want to make changes and experience your life at a different level,you must be willing to change.
Once you begin to change your beliefs about what is possible for your life,you must be willing to do whatever it takes.
This usually requires you to change some of your habits and activities.
When my life was hitting the lowest point,it became clear to me that I would have to make significant changes if I was to have the kind of life I wanted.
It was clear to me that I was going the downward slope and if I did not change,I would probably die(due to frustrations) or worse- continue to live in the hell that my life had become. I was in so much spiritual,mental,physical,and emotional pain that I would have done anything to change my life.
I changed my habits, I changed where I lived. I became the go solo girl. I reconnected with my spiritual side and all that goes with it.
Once,I wanted to publish my book on print, I procrastinated and would sit on the computer trying to see if I could get anything done myself but I realised I had been wasting a lot of time that I needed to get up and go out in search of a good publisher who would do justice to what I desired. I made that move and it yielded a positive result for me.
Really,I needed to change for me to see the change I wanted.
Everyone thinks of changing the world but no one thinks of changing himself .Leo Tolstoy
I realise with the passage of time that nothing changes if you don’t really make that change.
One definition of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting a different result. If you want to weigh less,and be healthier,it is necessary to embark on a regular exercise program and make healthier food choices. Always begin by having a physical check-up and consultation with a health practitioner to help you establish a program. If what you want is financial independence and security, you will need to change your relationship with money.You may need to learn more about finances and investments,change your spending habits,or some combination of both. You may want to begin your own part or full-time business.
Taking a new step,uttering a new word is what people fear most.Fyodor Dostoyevsky,Crime and Punishment
The person who wants a better relationship with their spouse or children might need to change the way they relate and communicate with them. The parents who wants a better relationship with their child,but is busy working may want to reevaluate their priorities and make some changes in their schedule to allow more time for their children.
This is one of the main reasons so many people are starting their own businesses and working from home.
What changes will you make?Do you spend your spare time surfing the internet or watching television when what you really want is financial freedom? Doing that will not get you there. Perhaps trading a night of television to take a class in a new skill or subject will move you closer to your dream life.
What immediate changes do you need to make today? Start by listing them out and let the change begin.
Health and fitness.
Family,friends,and social relationships.
Social and material.
Money and Investments.
Career and business.