All of us have people in our lives that we are close to. It may seem easy to love the people we know well but in reality,sometimes,it isn’t. Loving our neighbors means we love them on the easy days and on the hard days. We applaud their successes and comfort them when they fail.
Here are some practical ways that we can love the people we are close to.
–Lighten their load: When we know someone well,we know when things are going well and when they are not. When someone is facing a struggle ,we can be a part of the solution.It’s easy to say things like, “Let me know if you need anything.” But truthfully,most people won’t. You might phrase your assistance like this, “I’m bringing dinner over to your family tonight. What time works?”
– Extend grace: One of the most important ways we can love our neighbors is to make allowances for their shortcomings. Choosing to extend grace means we forgive those who offend us. After all,God has forgiven each of us so much, it’s unwise to justify our unforgiveness toward others. Through the process of forgiving others,we will be free from.harboring bitterness.
-Build others up: With our words and actions ,we do one of two things-build up or tear down. Our world isn’t always a friendly one,so let’s be bringers of good news to the people in our lives. We never know how our kind words or act will change someone’s day and potentially their future. For the people we know,we can find numerous ways to show them love. Perhaps,we run an errand for someone who can’t get out. Do chores around their house or spend time truly listening and hearing them when things are difficult.Let’s learn to put others needs infront of our own on a more regular basis. When we do this,we are acting as Jesus did,for there’s no greater love than we set ourselves aside and do something for someone else.